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Girl Well

How to Get Girls: Become a Natural

If you want to learn how to get girls, the great news is that you can do one even better than that. You can get girls to want to pick you up.

The secret lies in becoming a natural with girls. A 'natural' is a guy who can attract almost any girl he interacts with. He can also get girls on dates anytime he pleases. I know that may sound far-fetched, but here's the reality:

a) Almost all guys are naturally attracted to physically good-looking girls. If a beautiful girl walks into a room, you can bet that all the guys in the room will be sexually attracted to her.

b) Almost all girls are naturally attracted to certain male behaviors and personality traits. If a confident guy walks into a room, regardless of his looks, you can bet that all the girls will feel a certain level of sexual attraction for him.

He'll then need to ensure that he continues to behave in an attractive way if he wants his pick of the best girls available. For example: Being confident, being great at conversation, getting along with others in social situations, being an alpha male, knowing how to flirt and use humor, displaying attractive body language - and so on.

If he doesn't behave in an attractive way, he simply won't be able to attract and maintain the interest of the best girls and will almost always have to settle for second best...or nothing at all.

The great news is that when you develop the behaviors and personality traits that naturally attract girls, you will attract girls without having to think about it. Some of the common questions I get at this point:

1. How long will it take me to get to the point of being a natural? How long it takes to become a natural depends entirely on:

a) How committed you are to achieving this goal. For example: You may be really excited about learning to become successful with girls. Yet, if you don't actually approach any girls with the knowledge and advice I give you, not much will change and the 'magic' of The Flow will not work for you.

Commitment in this area involves taking risks. By risks, I mean doing things that are outside your comfort zone. For example: Approaching girls in bookstores might be outside your comfort zone. However, in this e-Book you will learn exactly what you need to do to successfully meet, attract and date girls that you meet in bookstores (and any other place for that matter!).

You will have the knowledge. You will know how to do it. But will you?

b) What your 'follow-through' is like. The guys that have achieved the most success with learning how to get girls are those who have followed-through by:

1) Going out to socialize at least 2 nights per week to work on the areas that require improvement.
2) Keeping an active list of the areas that are 'achieved' and those which 'need some work.'
3) Spending plenty of time and energy to ensure that they are integrating effective mindsets.

Here's a useful exercise to accelerate your progress:

a) Buy a notepad to write on.
b) At the end of each reading session, set aside 5 minutes to briefly write down what you have learnt, in your own words. Writing it in your own words helps with remembering it.
c) Go out and practice what you have learnt, by interacting with girls.
d) On the last 5-10 pages of the notepad, make a list of areas that you have 'achieved' and those which 'need some work.'

For example: Achieved - I am now great at approaching girls and starting up simple conversations. My body language is a lot more confident now.

Needs some work - My conversations need to include more flirting. I need to maintain more eye-contact when interacting with girls. When I started to write things down, I got more focused and achieved my goals faster. It's up to you.

c) The level at which you are starting this journey. Okay, this is a big one too.

The reality is that some of you reading this may have been in a number of relationships, never been with a girl, rarely approached girls, only been with girls who have 'picked you up' (i.e. they basically handed themselves on a platter to you), you've been married and the list goes on.

But, it doesn't really matter how many girls you've been with. What matters is this: Are you currently doing the things that naturally attract girls to you? Are you currently approaching girls in the correct way and then progressing things toward a date?

If not, then you must decide to take action. Learn all the things you need to do to attract girls, such as: Building confidence, mastering your conversation skills and learning how to flirt.

About the Author

Dan Bacon is the CEO of TheModernMan.com who provide dating advice for men.

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